New Year’s Wishes for Rosh Hashanah 5785 with Some Reflections on the Situation (Column 668)
With God’s help
Disclaimer: This post was translated from Hebrew using AI (ChatGPT 5 Thinking), so there may be inaccuracies or nuances lost. If something seems unclear, please refer to the Hebrew original or contact us for clarification.
In the past two weeks I’ve undergone an inner upheaval. I was in complete despair about the motivation, the initiative, and the miserable military capabilities we’ve shown over the past decades. It was clear to me that the problem was not only the government but primarily the army. Every child knows that when the army has clear recommendations, the political echelon almost always accepts them, and therefore it was clear to me that the main problem lies with the army (yes, yes, also with regard to October 7). The slogan “Let the IDF win” has sounded to me for many years now stale and empty. It seemed to me that there was hardly anyone there who actually wanted to win and believed in victory.
The management of the campaign in the north in recent weeks restored my confidence that we still have military initiative and creativity. As a certified armchair strategist, in my estimation there has rarely, if ever, been a campaign run so brilliantly and effectively. It’s an amazing combination of intelligence preparation, military and covert execution, and no less important—the diplomatic accompaniment. The well-timed American condemnations, their unconvincing calls for a ceasefire (which, the moment fighting begins, suddenly flip in an instant into unequivocal support, along with continued supply of munitions and equipment and the provision of international backing), show without doubt that there has been full coordination between the countries throughout. Everyone now understands President Biden’s enigmatic yet clearly jubilant remark yesterday that he is even more aware than we all think of the danger of war in the north. It’s obvious that the Americans are the first who should be pleased that we are severely damaging the “Axis of Evil” (their term, as you’ll recall), without any cost to them other than largely passive backing. Their conduct on the ground also shows that Israel certainly did not bend them and act against their position (if they had truly opposed it, not a single tank would have moved; all the munitions are from them, and so is the international umbrella), but rather is playing together with them.
Thus we reached the opening of the campaign under the best conditions one could have dreamed of. Where is all the dread we’ve felt for years about the moment we would be forced to open a war against Hezbollah and how the entire country would be paralyzed?! Where is the fear that paralyzed our ability to respond to the tent on Mount Dov and the long-standing provocations that passed without a response?! So far—nothing. Simply nothing. I hope we also know how to finish this correctly and reap the fruits without getting entangled.
It’s true that Bibi, as usual, is picking the fruits and attributing everything to himself—and will undoubtedly continue to do so. But it cannot be denied that much of this really does belong to him. I tip my hat to him. The man is devilishly talented—a fox who knows how to maneuver in the political and diplomatic arena despite the unbearably difficult conditions in which he operates. I don’t think another prime minister would have managed to do what he has done this past year (not that I think all of it is correct) within an impossible pressure cooker at home and abroad (which he himself is the main factor in creating). It turns out that sometimes we also benefit from his talent, which in many cases has worked against us. My criticisms of him that appear here on the site all stand as is, and I hope he will not be elected in the upcoming elections (despite the tireless efforts of the Kaplanists and the families of the hostages—whose intentions, I believe, are good—to bring him to the prime minister’s chair against all odds; see the appendix). But integrity requires acknowledging his advantages and his successes.
Despite the above attitude toward Bibi, which still stands, lately I find myself repeatedly defending Bibi and attacking the protest against him. I do this because in my view he and his colleagues are being presented in a biased and dishonest way, which harms the discourse in general and in particular the struggle against him.
Following the recent events I am somewhat more optimistic. Perhaps some process of correction is beginning, at least in most of the population (beyond the fringes on both sides). I hope and wish that starting this year we will adopt conduct and an honest attitude toward reality and the actors within it, and that we will know how to build a complex picture of them. Black-and-white is almost never the right approach to life. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t have a position, of course. Certainly we should. But a position must be formed out of a sober and balanced view of reality and of the moral world: weighing the considerations on both sides and then forming a stance. Regarding any party, person, or event, we should honestly examine the different aspects and separate the light from the darkness that usually come mixed together.
I’ve written more than once that the main problem I see in our reality is not the hatred, nor the positions themselves (on any side), but the absence of discourse, the positionalism, and the dogmatic, simplistic thinking of Children of Light versus Children of Darkness (on both sides). Sometimes there really are such who are Children of Darkness, and it’s important to recognize that and not let the complex view blur it—but usually that’s not the case. Before deciding who the Children of Darkness are, we must examine the picture carefully and honestly.
I wish us all a good year—a year of forming positions, of substantive debate and discourse. Good tidings, victory (absolute!) in the north and in the south, and of course the return of the hostages and the evacuees to their homes. And regarding the people of the north, I would say: May it be God’s will that their homes not become their graves (a paraphrase of Jerusalem Talmud, Yoma 5:2).
Appendix: On Dogmatism and Blindness
A few days ago I had a discussion in a WhatsApp group that includes several leaders of Brothers in Arms, and I repeated my claim that through their one-sidedness (the psychosis, as I have put it here more than once), they are themselves bringing Bibi upon us in the next elections. The polls show this trend clearly, and in my view their contribution to it is decisive. By the way, yesterday I recorded a podcast with Jeremy Fogel (following their bungle with the podcast of Tzvi Sukkot and my criticism of it; see column 664), in which I insisted on focusing the discussion on the question of discourse and on the consequences of the one-sided view and the blindness it creates. I said there that I am “anti-religious,” meaning anti the religiosity on both sides that creates dogmatism and silencing (as in that notorious podcast) and does not allow discourse. The recording will go up online and on the site here in about two weeks. In any case, within that WhatsApp argument, one of the people slated to speak at the demonstration on the night after Yom Kippur asked me to write what I would want to say to the Kaplan crowd, and he would try to take points from it and incorporate them into his remarks. This is what I wrote to him:
Michael, it came out longer, but in any case you can choose what—if anything—you take from here. Unfortunately, these are fine distinctions and somewhat conceptual points that are hard to say from a stage at a stormy, emotional demonstration. I’m used to writing essays, not giving square speeches with slogans that tug at heartstrings. But this is what I have to say to you/them.
Hello everyone.
I hope you’ll allow me to say a few words that are not routine and may be unpopular in this place. By way of preface: I am an Orthodox rabbi who leans to the right in his views, and yet I share very harsh criticism of the coalition and the government, of the judicial reform (though in my eyes it is certainly not the end of democracy), and in particular of the corruption and the disgraceful, discriminatory treatment accorded to the Haredim at the expense of the general public, as well as of the populism and the damage to governance and integrity, and more. I also have criticism of particulars in the management of the war (though here I lack sufficient information and there is a non-negligible chance that I am wrong), and certainly of the botched treatment of the population during the war (though dealing with such a situation is indeed an extremely difficult task with no precedent, and bureaucracy and insensitivity, as is known, were not invented in the past year).
The caveats I added in parentheses above were not included merely for academic precision. They are precisely the message I wanted to convey here. My message is against the decisiveness and obtuseness blowing through these squares and demonstrations.
As noted, I share many of the criticisms of the government in various areas. Needless to say, my heart is torn by the situation of the hostages and their families. And make no mistake: there is no one in Israel who does not feel that way. No one is indifferent to it, including the greatest of the “evildoers” and the “messianists” in your eyes. But if these two issues constitute the focus of the demonstrations, then why is most of the public staying home and not joining these demonstrations? Why are they even dwindling over time? Why did those on the right who tried to join not repeat that mistake? We keep being told this is not a matter of left and right. But our eyes see that it is. The repetition of that slogan sounds like an Orwellian mantra (slavery is freedom and ignorance is strength). Have you considered why the coalition’s strength is only growing in the latest polls despite the deepening crisis on all fronts and the lack of solutions? Don’t make life easy for yourselves. It’s not only fatigue, and not only dogmatism and lack of independent thinking—though of course you can find some of that there as well. You too bear a central share of the blame.
I can explain to you, for example, why I stay home, and so do many others, mainly on the right but not only. I know you’ll object to almost every word I say here, but try to open your ears and hearts and listen anyway. I say this in pain and deep frustration, and I think it is critical to achieving the goals that both you and I desire; in my view, through your conduct you are shooting yourselves—and me—in the foot.
First, a demonstration of solidarity with the hostages should not be tied to our attitude toward the government. Without that linkage, quite a few coalition supporters would likely join. This mixing is a fundamental and tactical mistake.
Second, solidarity with the hostages and calling for efforts to bring them home does not necessarily mean accusing the government of foiling the deal or being indifferent to their fate. Certainly there is no justification for shouting that they are murderers, messianists, and delusional. I, as someone who opposes the national-religious outlook represented in the coalition and many of its moves, tell you that they are not, and most of their supporters are not either.
Third, to the best of my knowledge there is no indication that the government is foiling the deals. There is a completely legitimate disagreement about the proper price to pay for such a deal. Therefore, accusing those who oppose the deal of indifference to the fate of the hostages is nothing but ugly incitement. Hamas is the one foiling the deal, and to this day no one knows whether there even was or is such a deal on the table and what it includes (certainly not all the hostages, and without information on who is alive and who is dead). Everyone understands that it is not right to pay any price for such a deal. But when it comes to criticizing the government, these insights disappear and fall silent. Everyone here declares decisively that there is a deal on the table for all the hostages and that only Bibi the “murderer,” for non-substantive reasons (together with Ben-Gvir and Smotrich the “messianists”), is thwarting it. Anyone not living in a bubble understands that this is a lie, and also understands its implications for public opinion.
From all the above you can understand that the feeling outside the narrow circle of demonstrators is that this is a religious sect clinging to articles of faith it adopted without any real basis, and it declares war on all the “heretics.” People here are unwilling to hear counter-arguments and discuss them on their merits. The responses are screams instead of arguments. Don’t be mistaken: this hysteria probably boosts the motivation of the already convinced and therefore creates an atmosphere that it’s worthwhile to do this—but you ignore the fact that it also alienates all those who are not among them. This conduct throws many people who could have joined both struggles (against the government and for a hostage deal) back to their base. It will bring Bibi upon us in the next elections (I remind you of the poll results). As noted, the facts are that support for the coalition is growing and attendance at the demonstrations is shrinking.
The easiest thing is to blame everyone else for dogmatism, laziness, moral indifference, wickedness, messianism, and all other ills—to present this as a war of Children of Light against Children of Darkness. But one who is willing to look reality in the eye must be brave enough to ask himself where he himself is wrong. Where are the points of darkness within my light, and where are the points of light within the other’s darkness. It is recommended, in the days of soul-searching of Elul and Tishrei, to beat our own chests rather than only those of others.
Do not delude yourselves. Those standing opposite you are not a herd of zombies, nor a collection of evildoers, fools, messianists, etc. They are simply people who think differently from you. They have arguments and positions worth hearing and examining, and only then forming a position. This is true regarding the reform and also regarding the hostages (but not regarding corruption). If you give them respect and listen to their arguments—and perhaps even be willing to be persuaded by some of them—I estimate you will, in turn, receive listening from the other side. This is essential not only for creating social solidarity, but for our ability to function, to reach balanced conclusions, and to move forward from the current stuckness. At the moment we are only brawling and not advancing anywhere. You too need to understand that not all the truth is with you—just as it isn’t entirely anywhere else. It lies somewhere in the middle. There is a dispute between two legitimate opinions, and it would be good for all of us to be aware of that and act accordingly.
Thank you for listening.
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Congratulations on the sharpness in the letter to Kaplan's people. I share many of your mixed feelings about the Prime Minister and in general, but I'm not at all sure that the direction of rejoicing over political genius is right at all. I have no indication that the US did not interfere or that because of the solid political infrastructure that this man created, it supported the move in Lebanon. Maybe it did and maybe not. I don't know. I have no expectations from the senile Biden who understands something and his aides. I think there is something else here - and it is the absolute reign of God. We have no understanding of what happened on October 7th and the whole attempt to understand - is stupid in my opinion. We have no understanding of how the pager story changed momentum from one side to the other, in an instant, when we were trembling to deal with the north and suddenly there is a chance that the entire front, and perhaps the entire axis of evil, will dissolve. I think that God is standing here in all his genius, and even those who believe with all their hearts in man and his actions, and in man's power to act and change, should applaud in amazement at what is happening here. This is not a speech of "morality," but insight. This year man was truly just a tool on God's great board.
Good luck! I'm so glad you were given the opportunity to write these words to them and I hope someone will listen!
You wrote in parentheses (but not about corruption). Do you mean that on this issue Bibi's supporters don't have arguments that they've heard?
From my research on the submarine issue specifically, there is a psychosis around this issue similar to the one we've seen in the last two years. Many of the minds don't know the details of this complex affair, but only the gist of the matter: bribery, fraud, and breach of trust.
No. What I mean is that if there is truly corruption in this, there is no point in looking for a right side. It is certainly true that the actions need to be examined to see if they are indeed corruption or if these are false accusations.
I had fun and also had a pretty high level of mental peace reading a column that brings us closer and unites, and especially from you – who is used to criticizing and even harshly.
Beyond the fact that you are quite right in almost everything you wrote (including that the overwhelming majority of us want the best for the country), you can see that when the writing is so pleasant, the explanations become simple and understandable anyway, and there is not even a need for a particularly long column.
Just a small thing (but really small) nevertheless – It is true that compared to what they promised us during the confrontation with Hezbollah, we experience very little, and still calling “Yuk” what is happening is an exaggerated treatment.
In the center, we may feel it less, but in the north (both Galilees) there are quite a few alarms every day.
But it is really small.
And again, may great power be upon the written, and may we all be blessed to get closer to God.
When I wrote "yuck", I meant in the face of the precise missile threats and the paralysis of the government and the damage to strategic points. The evacuation of the north and the rockets certainly happened and are happening. And even there, the damage to life is negligible. Would anyone have dreamed that this would happen at a stage when we are already after a strong blow to Hezbollah? Everyone was sure that at this stage we would no longer have electricity, no ports and airports, military facilities and warehouses would be destroyed, thousands of deaths, etc. Nothing happened from all this. Note: quite a bit. Nothing!
Very nice. The truth is that you expressed my feelings accurately, except for one thing - is it good for Bibi to go? I'm not sure anymore. When you see who is standing against it and what incitement and one-sidedness in the discourse they are promoting, I suddenly think that Bibi is the lesser evil, because there is no doubt that all the mediocre politicians on the other side of the fence will include the Haredim in the government to the same extent and give them what they want. Add to that the fact that this will have implications for the security of the country, as you yourself say that he is talented as a devil and there is no one like him and he certainly has the greatest experience in the field, is it worth it for us to risk the security of the country for this?
In my opinion, absolutely yes. Preferring the short term over the long term is one of our grave evils. That's how we got to October 7. The containment policy is based on exactly that. Similarly, Bibi must not be contained because of his short-term advantages.
The main ones who are coming out against Bibi are messianic at best and a minority of them are liars who don't believe in themselves and are incapable of action at worst (they don't even have the little good that Bibi has).
What exactly do I have to prefer about them? What reasonable alternative do they bring or present?
That reality is shaped according to their imagination and desires?
That only their values are real and everything else is tantamount to murder or slavery and therefore it is impossible to contain even a little of this in a public space?
Good article as all!
Happy New Year to dear Rabbi Michael, continue your good work – there are fruits in ”G.
A beautiful and correct letter. Happy New Year.
That's ridiculous.
That's ridiculous.
Oh my god…
Every time I get excited again and again how good it is and I look forward to reading your sharp, honest, deep and precise words.
The secret is: the ability to hold complexity.
The ability to say I don't know, I'm not sure, it seems reasonable to me.
Not easy.
May we be worthy of being “anti-religious”…
and truly listen and truly seek the truth.
That's ridiculous.
I am writing here after a long time since I wrote to you. You have taught me a lot in the past. I think I owe most of my organized thinking to you. Most of my friends are from the more conservative side of the map, but I have taken a lot of tools from you to contain complexity and to achieve as much of my insights and beliefs as possible. I really no longer associate myself with one school or another, but try to decide on every issue according to my understanding. By the way, I am trying to instill this method in my friends as well, it is still difficult but there is also success. I must say that since the seventh... I have not been able to bring myself to read your words, I felt and still feel that my intuitive truth is far from much of what you wrote after that damned night. Today I read your words and I was very pleased. You are truly seeking the truth.
Have a good new year!
As you describe your situation, I did mine. It is no longer critical whether you read me or not.
Many times I have been asked to shorten and summarize and add summaries, and I refuse in principle. My goal in the columns is not only to reach a conclusion or to convince you of it, but mainly the path. Analysis and critical thinking, to neutralize the gut and the position. I try to convey this through the analysis and the path to the conclusion. Whoever has adopted this, from my point of view, it is less important that they read more columns (although of course I am happy that they read).
As for the Americans, let me make a reservation and say that in a certain sense, Bibi was lucky that the war attacked us in the year of their election, a year in which any aggressive step of theirs could cost them Harris's government (the Jewish vote and not only). In my opinion, we will know better what they thought about the situation, in the months of Biden's government after the elections (regardless of who will be elected there).
I personally believe that just as in 7.10 the main failure was the IDF, all the more so the achievements in the north are thanks to a very advanced intelligence force, and the action of the Mossad and are less related to the successes of the political echelon in my opinion. In my opinion, it is much easier to see a connection between the political echelon and 7.10 (in concept, attention to detail, etc.) than a connection between policy and the success of thwarting Nasrallah's operation beepers.
In any case, I am hopeful that perhaps if the level of security anxiety decreases, we can reach a state of changing voting patterns and focusing on existential dangers no less great than Iran: the economy and good economic management, addressing the acute problem of the ultra-Orthodox, promoting liberal values, proper governance, and eradicating corruption, etc.
Happy New Year to the Rabbi!
And also to Mr.
As far as Bibi is concerned, he alone. Basically, what did you think, and what did you think? When you condemned him and the Bibiists outright, didn't you know that he wasn't operating in a vacuum? That he was surrounded by military personnel who didn't really care much (and I say this sentence a little to make it easier to understand) beyond their fat pensions? That their motivation (thank God, we can say that this is in the past) aspired to zero? Not to mention the malicious concealment of information from him, regarding Hamas' preparations for an invasion of the encirclement, and perhaps even deeper.
I basically believed exactly what I believed before. Nothing has changed.
Or as we learned from you to prefer arguments over names and slogans. The stability of the coalition that backed Bibi over the past year also has important significance. Happy and blessed new year.
Although I don't agree with the compliments you showered on Bibi, I don't think all of these political moves are planned, but in many cases they are constraints, but in any case I appreciate your ability to patronize a man who you are usually a harsh critic of, an ability that I and many others don't have.
Just to make sure we understood correctly: the failed moves in Gaza are because the army doesn't believe in victory, and conversely, the successful moves in Lebanon are because of Bibi, right?
I think you are wrong about the Americans.
You presented the Americans as actually pushing for harm to Hezbollah and the other proxies.
You are wrong. The Americans are interested in the Americans. That is, their elections.
Their greatest interest in November is that a full-scale war does not develop.
Their chronic push, for several months, for a hostage deal – proves the point well.
It seems to say that the call for a ceasefire before the elimination of Nasrallah – was sincere and genuine.
In addition, it became known that Israel did not inform the Americans before the elimination
Happy and sweet New Year to Rabbi Michi and his loyal followers.
Happy and blessed New Year, to you and to all the people of Israel.
The following text is by Amitai Gazit in ”Calcalist” :
“The abandonment of the kidnapped, the incitement against their families, the neglect of the survivors of the massacre, the dragging of feet in preparing the state budget – All of these and more indicate that the Prime Minister has no red lines. His personal good and his political and legal needs – above all”.
How can such writing be explained? (The explanation should include the ”fact” Netanyahu is a ”poison machine”)
May we all have many pleasant and optimistic years.
There is an ignoring of the gambler's syndrome here. Bibi was and remains a gambler. He gambled on “Hamas is an asset and the PA is a burden” On the morning of a year and a day ago, it turned out that the gamble had failed. I believe that during the period, the writer would also have probably been tying crowns on the brilliant political move that almost completely eliminated the Palestinian problem.
The same is true in the current situation. Bibi gambled on a long war. A long war has many and painful prices. At the moment and with an emphasis on the present moment, the gamble turned out to be successful for Israel. Does this mean that it will also turn out to be successful in a month/year/or decade? Not at all certain.
In general, it is recommended not to encourage leaders to gamble on Israel's security. Especially not leaders whose previous gamble turned out to be a failure and it is not the first.