Donation to the Abraha

Hello Rabbi,
I wanted to ask, was I asked by my host to donate to him from my tithe?
He claims his situation is dire and his wife does not earn enough.
Basically, he explained to me that his wife could earn more, but for that she would have to work a job with longer hours. Then it would be difficult for them with the children.
And he is a beggar and does not work, so their financial situation, he claims, is not easy.
I wanted to ask whether you think it is possible to donate tithe money in such a case? I don’t really care if the money goes here or there.
But finally he can go out and work, although he lacks education, he will be able to find a job at least for minimum wage. And his wife can work even more.
I understand donating to people who work and can’t make ends meet. But here the situation is different.