Hardware

Precise. Not harsh but sincere.

The rabbi who shook hands with a woman (I forgot who) was once asked if he was lenient in maintaining contact, and he replied that he was stricter in a person towards his fellow man. Our rabbi is also stricter in a person towards his fellow man; that is why he extends his hand in answer to almost every question. He is also stricter in the commandment to know the Lord. That is why he brings up almost any argument to prove his reality. The rabbi is stricter in the commandment to study Torah, and therefore he teaches men and women. And finally, the rabbi is stricter in not being strict so that all the energy is dispersed over all the benefits. You must ask what the rabbi is lenient in

I think it was Rabbi Unterman.

Here is what Wikipedia has to say about him: When a woman reached out to him, Rabbi Unterman shook her hand, saying, "I am not lenient in touching, but strict in respecting people." [6]

For example, I don't include Haredim in the minyan, is that a big deal?
PS: I have taken upon myself, up to 120 and more, not to pray in a minyan where there are no ten except for Haredim

To Benjamin he said –

Then you can say in your prayer: ‘See our position, Lord”…’)

With blessings, Samson of the sons of Hushim

You can make a minyan with your ten sons: Bela, Becher, Ashbel, Gera, Naaman, Ahi, Rosh, Mephim, Nepham, and Arad 🙂