Haredi or religious, etc.

A person is supposed to formulate his own position. It is worth hearing the arguments of all sides, and it is very desirable to do so critically, and then formulate a position. If you are looking for someone to trust, you will not be able to reach a coherent position, because there are wise and knowledgeable people on all sides. Therefore, there is no choice but to formulate a position yourself. This, of course, must be done carefully and gradually. The more you know, the better you will be able to formulate a position. At first, go with your heart and your initial intuitions, but it is worth maintaining an openness and then correcting. In general, I am not at all in favor of adopting a blanket position, that is, falling under one of the headings you presented in your list. For each question, it is worthwhile and appropriate to formulate a position yourself. There is no reason to adopt an entire series of answers just because of belonging to one group or another. Therefore, I also do not have a position towards one or another stream. I am against streams in general, and I have positions on the various questions, and that is how I try to act.