Poor Haredi

On the eve of Lag BaOmer 5772

Ham – Shalem,

The beginning of wisdom in matchmaking is to raise your self-image. A woman expects her husband to be her ‘anchor’, a solid pillar that she can rely on. A man who is ‘poor’ in his own eyes will make it very difficult for his wife to see him as an ‘anchor’.

Service in the army (for example, in a Haredi Nachal, a "Shachar" or "Haredi Hesder Yeshiva") and a lucrative profession, which is easier to acquire in Haredi-military frameworks, are also factors that will "raise your voice" in the eyes of a religious-national girl, and your personal connection with a Haredi-national rabbi, for example, Rabbi Yehoshua Shapira, Rosh Yeshiva of Rehovot, can also help you find what you are looking for.

May the "Moshib Ekdidim Beita" help you fulfill all your heart's desires for the good,
With blessings, Hillel Feiner-Gloskinos

A. Poor not in self-image but in reality

An ultra-Orthodox (your name is born to such parents and this is the experience that God put him through) who abandoned ultra-Orthodoxism, returned to Judaism and conducts himself honestly.
Why do you think he is poor?
He is a complete repentant person and has a good chance of a normal life in this world and certainly an excellent life in the next world.