The parents are to blame.

A rabbi who was considered ‘serious’, an advisor for peace, a home, education, improving morals, guidance in learning, and perhaps a few other topics, would give advice on how and what, mainly in the field of education.
Parents came to him who had a teenage boy who was causing trouble, and he told them that there was nothing they could do because they weren’t holy enough when they created him, and that’s what it is.
 
Does a rabbi nowadays even have the ability to see problems in someone and say that the time of pregnancy is to blame?
Is it possible that this is a fundamental flaw that cannot be repaired/educated/reshaped?
What were the parents supposed to think about during their union, beyond joy and pleasure? 1 What 2?
 
There are groomsmen guides who scare you with this story but don’t tell you what to think and what to do right.