Uthini umbono wakho kwiingxoxo ezichasene nolwaluko? Ukuba umntwana ngumntu omele abe nokukhetha ukuba enze okanye angenzi izenzo ezingenakulungiseka emzimbeni wakhe, ukuba umanyano lubeka emngciphekweni umntwana kwaye ngokubanzi kufana nokusika i-ingono kumantombazana (ngokuphathelele ingxabano yezempilo)
Iingxoxo ezinjalo zinokuchasa indlela yokutya, imfundo nezinye izinto ezinjalo. Akukho kusinda kwimpembelelo yabazali kubomi bomntwana. Ngoko nokuba ibango lichanekile ngokwethiyori ayisebenzi. Abazali bafanele benze konke okusemandleni abo ngokokholo lwabo kuye. Ngokukodwa, xa ekhulile, isigqibo sokwenza umanyano siya kumenzakalisa kwaye senze kube nzima kuye.
Kodwa yinkqubo engenakuguqulwa echasene nokutya kunye nemikhwa yemfundo
Ayonyani. Yonke into ayinakuguqulwa. Umzekelo, imfundo iyisa kwindawo ekwanefuthe kwisigqibo sokuba sitshintshe indlela.
Kwimfundo kunokutshiwo ukuba iyabuyiswa kodwa isondlo ngokuqinisekileyo asiyi kuguqulwa.
Kwakhona ukungaluki kwisithuba seentsuku ezisi-8 sisigqibo esingenakuguqulwa. Akukho mntu uya kukwazi ukubuyisela kulo mntwana iintsuku zobuntwana awayengaphandle komnqophiso.
Kutheni le nto ikuphela komcimbi okhoyo ukusuka ekubalekeni kukaRabhi ukuya kumzimba walo mbandela iimpendulo zibuthathaka kwaye azikho serious. Ngandlel’ ithile ikhumbuza i-apologetics ye-ultra-Orthodox kwixesha lethu.
A, ngokwenene. Kodwa qaphela ukuba wabhala "nangona ithiyori ichanekile" kwaye emva koko wathi akukho enye inketho kwaye yonke into ayinakuguqulwa, njl. Kodwa eyona mpendulo yeyokuba lo myalelo wolwaluko ulodlula ixabiso lokuzimela komntwana ongenangqondo.
Ngokombono wam, impendulo eneneni yomelele kwaye ichanekile kwaye ayiphepheki.
Ukulandela ukusuka kwesi sihloko, ndicinge ukuba ndongeza ukuba kukho ingxaki apha phakathi kwexabiso lokuzimela komntu kubantwana bakhe kunye nobukhulu bomonakalo emntwaneni. Ukuba ibiyinto enkulu kakhulu yokwenzakala (njengokunqunyulwa komlenze okanye ingalo) bekuya kubakho indawo yokusebenzisa ukunyanzeliswa ukuze kuthintelwe lo mkhwa ngabo bangakholelwayo kuwo (njengokunyanzela umntu ukuba angazibulali nangona eye wazenza. ukuzimela ngomzimba wakhe). Kodwa kwimeko yolwaluko, umonakalo mncinane xa uthelekiswa nexabiso lokuzimela geqe kwabazali libonakala liligqwesa (kanye njengokuba umntu enganyanzelwanga ukuba ayeke ukutshaya nangona ezenzakalisa). Ngoko ke, kwanabo bangakukholelwayo ukubaluleka kolwaluko, abafanele bangabahluthi abo bakholwayo kulo. Okona kuninzi, abantu banokufundiswa ngoxolo ngokuchasene nezinto ezibizwa ngokuba "zobuqhetseba".
Shiya uluvo
Nceda ungene okanye Register Ukungenisa impendulo yakho