Honoring father and mother

Peace and blessings
It is explained in the Book of Holin, 11:1-12, that one is not obligated to honor one's father and mother because one has given a wife to her husband.
According to Rashi and the late
"Give her a salary alongside her – so that your days may be prolonged (Exodus 20)." This is why giving her a salary is interpreted to mean that if you do not fulfill it, this is the punishment for not taking this salary."
This means that there is no obligation to honor, but rather there is a mitzvah with a reward that can earn longevity, and if not, he simply will not receive anything, and according to the 7th commandment, it is good for two prohibitions, as follows:
A. When a father asks his son for something that is generally honorable [I understand the commandment of honor as something separate from the prohibition of dishonor, which applies to every person, but there is a commandment to honor, meaning there are three situations: A. to dishonor B. to be neutral C. to be honorable], is the son obligated, and if he refuses, is the son violating a prohibition?

on. Does the father walk in front of the blind man when the son refuses?

I would be happy to know the Rabbi.

thanks.