Again about the miracle of Gedera and the twin disaster

I'm still pondering your words about the miracle of gender.
I understand that you believe that there is no private providence. If I understand correctly, you are not insisting that there cannot be, but rather claiming that since we have no evidence that it does, and we have not seen it do, there is no reason to believe in it (correct me if I am wrong).
And here I don't understand why it is not reasonable in your opinion that the miracle of her gender is indeed providence, albeit an exception (perhaps God wanted to convey to you personally that sometimes there is private providence…).
In the twin disaster, when the first plane crashed into the tower, it was reasonable to say that it was an accident. But after the second plane also crashed into it, it was clear with almost absolute certainty that there was a deliberate hand here (a response such as closing emergency flights, etc.). Although statistically, if there can be one accident, there is a certain possibility that there will be two in a row. And yet, common sense determined that there was a deliberate hand.
Why not say the same about Hans Magdera?