Seconds in the ultra-Orthodox world

As an ultra-Orthodox, I agreed with almost the entire column, although I think you missed an important point. In the ultra-Orthodox world, there is a group of smart people who are connected to modern values ​​and have the same duality that you mentioned, but most modern ultra-Orthodox, called ultra-Orthodox lite, are modern to please the appetite and not to anger, that is, they went to work not because of ideology but in spite of the ultra-Orthodox ideology, they did not think about whether it was right or not, but chose the easy way out, and with them the duality comes for various reasons, they feel that they chose the modern side because of their weakness. Therefore, it will be more difficult for you to create a third, high-quality identity with them too, they are scoundrels and not scholars of Torah, and as you mentioned, it is more difficult to work with them.
Of course, I think it's legitimate and appropriate for the sector to go out to work, but it didn't come to them for the right reasons, and therefore even in the Haredi sector they aren't taken seriously.
And by the way, the claim that the Haredi public survives because of people like you, among other things, is a very strong claim. I really don't understand how they've ignored it until now.