Q&A: A Non-Jewish Housekeeper
A Non-Jewish Housekeeper
Question
Good evening, Rabbi. With your permission, I have 2 questions.
A relative of mine has an Indian Christian housekeeper {to the best of my knowledge, that is her religion}.
When I come to visit, as I’m parting from them, the housekeeper blesses me, “May God watch over you,” and instinctively I answer, “Amen, you too.” So is there any problem with that, because would that count as my acknowledging her religion, or is there any other issue?
Also, sometimes I compliment her, such as: “Indians are good people,” “How professional/good/kind-hearted you are,” etc. My intention, of course, is that she should give good service and come to her work with enthusiasm. Is there any problem with that?
Answer
In my opinion, no. You are blessing her with the name of your God. Besides, hers is probably also your God.
And if she is a good woman, it is certainly appropriate to tell her so.