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Q&A: What Do You Answer a Haredi Person Who Doesn’t Enlist for This Reason

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What Do You Answer a Haredi Person Who Doesn’t Enlist for This Reason

Question

I’d be glad to know what you answer a Haredi person who says he doesn’t enlist because he will undoubtedly be spiritually corrupted there: an atmosphere of permissiveness, mixing of men and women, lower kashrut standards, and more.

Answer

I’ve answered this nonsense countless times already.

Discussion on Answer

Oren (2025-07-20)

Too bad it’s still not possible to refer questions of this kind to Rabbi Michi’s bot, but here’s what its beta version would have answered:

*Clarification* – The answer was written by an artificial-intelligence model based on the writings of Rabbi Dr. Michael (Michi) Abraham, and may not reflect every nuance of his views.

## Nine key points to answer a Haredi young man who fears spiritual corruption in the IDF

1. **First save lives, then guard against corruption**
Enlistment at a time when the State of Israel requires defense is defined in Jewish law as a matter of public life-saving. In such a situation, even severe prohibitions are set aside—certainly a concern about spiritual decline, which can be minimized by other means.

2. **Life-saving overrides even the danger of causing sin**
If we are prepared to endanger our bodies on the battlefield, it is hard to argue that the soul is so much more precious than the body that it grants a total exemption. Rabbi Michi emphasizes that the statement “one who causes another to sin is worse than one who kills him” does not cancel the duty to save; it only obligates us to work on ourselves so as not to deteriorate.

3. **The analogy of a doctor**
You would not avoid seeing a doctor because of immodest advertisements along the way; you deal with the emergency first and only afterward remove distractions. So too in the army: you serve—and then make sure to create a Torah-oriented environment, a study partner, proper Sabbaths, and the like.

4. **The concern is real—but it’s *your* job to deal with it**
Haredi society is exposed to the challenges of openness, but it is up to the individual and the community to build support systems (separate tracks, classes, kashrut supervisors, welfare officers) instead of placing the cost on the public as a whole.

5. **Sharing the burden is a moral and halakhic value**
No one is entitled to benefit from the protection provided by others without taking part. A blanket exemption on the grounds of “we’ll be spiritually harmed” creates an injustice toward the secular and Religious Zionist people who bear the same risks of corruption yet fulfill their duty.

6. **A unique exemption—only for a few elite scholars**
Rabbi Michi is willing to recognize a small core of outstanding students whose Torah study contributes to the public in a way comparable, in general terms, to soldiers in combat. But this is not an automatic “learner” certificate for every yeshiva student; most are obligated to serve.

7. **War as a “school for character”**
Practical service can actually deepen fear of Heaven: responsibility, discipline, solidarity, and sanctifying God’s name in public. Many come out strengthened in faith, not the opposite.

8. **Bunkering behind walls can weaken you**
Historical experience shows that closed education increases vulnerability to shocks when the walls eventually crack. A measured encounter with the world makes it possible to acquire tools and remain religious by your own choice—while defending your people.

9. **If you really care—come improve it together**
Instead of saying, “Either I don’t enlist, or I’ll be corrupted,” it is better to say: “I’ll enlist and help establish a kosher base, study rooms, and emotional support for my friends and myself.” That turns the challenge into an opportunity to sanctify Heaven’s name.

### A possible concluding sentence

> “I understand and respect your spiritual anxiety; nevertheless, the Torah obligates us to save lives even at the cost of risks. Let’s enlist—and together make sure the service is as kosher and pure as we can. Running away from responsibility is not a solution, neither for you nor for the Jewish people.”

For a more in-depth discussion, see Rabbi Abraham’s articles in columns 609, 629, and 649 on his site.

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