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Q&A: Background Understandings Surrounding a Contract

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Background Understandings Surrounding a Contract

Question

Hello Rabbi,
I have a somewhat strange question, but it’s something that’s bothering me.
I’m a student and I rent a housing unit next to an older couple who are the landlords. When we signed the contract (about half a year ago), he told me that he had received several offers, but he specifically wanted a student because “that’s the population he connects with,” and he also doesn’t want families with babies who make noise, etc., etc. So he even lowered the price by a few hundred shekels from the going rate in the neighborhood so that students would come.
So far so good. But it turns out that the man is bored, long-winded, and a nuisance, and he wants to talk to me for much longer than I’m interested in. I won’t go into detail because it’s unnecessary, but in my feeling he’s really overdoing it.
Now obviously, if this were just some neighbor, I would firmly and tactfully make sure to avoid these meetings-conversations, and that wouldn’t be a problem at all. The problem is that he’s the landlord. It’s not that I have any interest in keeping up a close relationship with him, it’s just that I tell myself that, so to speak, in the contract he wanted us to be friends, and I kind of agreed, so if I’m cold toward him it comes out that he gave a discount to a student and got nothing out of it. On the other hand, I’m losing my patience.
So the question is: are parts like these, which were supposedly a kind of gentleman’s agreement surrounding the contract, things that one has to keep in any case, or are they open to reconsideration?

Answer

I don’t think you undertook to give an encouraging reception to bothersome pestering. You have no obligation to do that. You should be nice and friendly, but there is nothing wrong with setting a boundary and explaining how far that works for you. You can explain to him that you’re busy and don’t have time.

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