Q&A: Modesty with One’s Wife
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Modesty with One’s Wife
Question
Hello,
I have been serving in reserve duty for a long period, and my wife has now immersed, but I wasn’t home. I have been an avrekh for many years. My wife sent me a picture of herself without clothes, and we spoke intimately with one another. Is there any deficiency in holiness in that?
B. Is it forbidden to come to an erection through thoughts about one’s wife?
Thank you
Answer
As for the thoughts, I don’t know. But it may lead to ejaculation, and that is forbidden even with one’s wife.