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A Kohen’s Daughter — An Important Question

Question

Hello, honored Rabbi
 
The Talmud says that there is a problem with an ignoramus marrying a kohen’s daughter. And the Shulchan Arukh likewise rules that an ignoramus should not marry a kohen’s daughter, “for he or she will die, etc….”
 
How can I know that I am not considered an ignoramus?
On the one hand, I try to keep the commandments, but I do not study Torah every day.
And on the other hand, I do have lapses, such as in the matter of refraining from physical contact, unfortunately (not actual intercourse). I of course regret those lapses.
 
In short, I would be glad for the Rabbi’s answer so I can understand what the standard is for an ignoramus, because what is written in the Talmud and in the Shulchan Arukh regarding the marriage of an ignoramus to a kohen’s daughter is very stressful.
 
 
 

Answer

See this short overview here: https://daf-yomi.com/DYItemDetails.aspx?itemId=55299
As a rule, it seems that this is not a prohibition but a danger. And when it comes to dangers, the halakhic decisors do not really understand them, so I would not be concerned about it.
Especially since nowadays nobody is careful about this. The question is also what counts as an ignoramus (perhaps the intent is someone who is not careful in observance of the commandments, as distinct from a “chaver”) and who counts as a kohen (there is doubt regarding lineage).
I would not be concerned about it.

Discussion on Answer

Michi (2024-07-03)

Danny wrote:
What do you mean when you say that halakhic decisors do not understand dangers? And also, the source for the danger is from the Talmud — do you think the Talmud is just trying to frighten people and there is not really any danger?
Regarding the ignoramus, according to the view that it means someone who is not careful about the commandments.
What is your opinion about a religious person who keeps the commandments but has lapses, like in matters of physical contact, malicious speech, etc.? That is, someone who tries with the commandments but is not careful at the level of crossing a highway. Does such a person fall under the category of an ignoramus? If so, then many religious people, even those who make it to the study hall benches, would seemingly fall under the category of ignoramus. (I don’t want to say most.) How careful are people not to speak malicious speech? Or is the matter of refraining from physical contact more severe than malicious speech?
And if there is doubt about a kohen’s lineage, does that mean there is no need to be concerned? That is, is the unclear lineage what determines it?
Or is it that there is a chance the woman really is not from kohen lineage, so you were “saved,” but if she is from kohen lineage then the person does enter into a concern of danger despite the doubt about lineage?
I would be glad for your answer.
Thank you very much

Michi (2024-07-03)

I do not know whether the Talmud only wanted to frighten people or whether it really thought so. But from my perspective that does not matter. The sages of the Talmud had no way of knowing that, and therefore even if they really thought so, that does not mean it is true. The Talmud also contains various remedies, and they apparently do not really work. The Talmud has authority regarding Jewish law and norms, not regarding facts.
Every person fails from time to time, so that is not a measure of an ignoramus. What the measure is is hard to answer, and there are differing opinions on the matter. I think a reasonably religious person who fails from time to time does not fall into that category. I do not know how to give a more precise standard.
The doubt about lineage is an additional supporting factor for leniency. As stated, in my opinion there is no danger here, so at most this is a prohibition or a recommendation not to do it.
That is what I have to tell you. I think it is not worthwhile to be too obsessive about this issue. You are expecting a mathematical answer, but there is no such thing. And anyone who gives you such an answer has no real basis for it.
And in closing, I think the concern about punishment in the heavenly court for the transgressions you describe is more serious (though even that is not certain) than the concern about the consequences of marrying a kohen’s daughter. Sexual prohibitions and malicious speech are more severe than an ignoramus marrying a kohen’s daughter. Therefore your approach seems to me inconsistent and illogical.

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