Q&A: Is a relationship with a girl permitted?
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Is a relationship with a girl permitted?
Question
Hello, Rabbi. I’m not asking this question just to be provocative.
I want to know why it is forbidden for me to have a girlfriend and have relations with her.
And I truly hope to hear the basis for the prohibition.
Answer
You can search online. See, for example, here: https://asif.co.il/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/7-1.pdf
There’s no problem at all, enjoy yourself (just don’t forget to use contraception).