True free choice?

You feel complete freedom of choice, but on the other hand you agree that circumstances influence choices. You also believe that ethical considerations matter.
I will ask in two situations of totality-
 
Did the Nukba terrorists, who were brainwashed from the age of 0 about "sons of apes and pigs," that we had stolen all their land, and that if they died it would be a martyr's death and they would be awarded 72 virgins, have a moral choice about whether to go out and kill "evil" Jews?
 
Because of hormonal secretions, I fell in love with a very limited number of women out of thousands or tens of thousands I encountered in my life. Did I have a real moral choice about which woman to marry, or was I essentially a puppet on a hormonal string that allowed for a very limited play in the realm of moral considerations (a few dozen women out of thousands)?