Q&A: On the Prohibition of Touch and Hearing a Woman's Voice
On the Prohibition of Touch and Hearing a Woman's Voice
Question
What does the Rabbi think about the prohibition against hearing a woman's voice, and about the prohibition of refraining from touch?
Answer
Touch is a halakhic prohibition in every respect. What exactly am I supposed to think about it? When it is not done affectionately and does not lead to forbidden thoughts, there is room to be lenient (such as shaking hands out of politeness). As for hearing a woman's voice, there indeed is a prohibition, but there are differing opinions regarding its parameters (the very fact that this is about singing is not at all clear-cut). There are quite a few leniencies among the halakhic decisors (such as hearing several women, through a loudspeaker, without seeing them, and the like). One should take into account that nowadays it is completely accepted to hear women singing as an artistic matter, without any connection to sexuality, which was not accepted in the past. Therefore today women's singing does not necessarily have a sexual connotation, and it does not necessarily arouse forbidden thoughts. So in practice, to the best of my judgment, one may rely on all these leniencies, at least where we are speaking about female singing that does not have a sexual connotation.
Yogev
Does the Rabbi halakhically permit any head covering that shows she is married, and even just gathering the hair? Could you provide a source for that?
4 months ago
Michi
I didn't write that. I wrote that I do not know how to draw a line, and that in my opinion there needs to be a significant covering. By the way, the most lenient source is the view of Shevut Yaakov, who explains that head covering by Torah law is only gathering the hair. And as for Jewish practice, that depends on custom, so it does not have an objectively binding halakhic definition.
4 months ago