Q&A: The Overcoming of the 'Rival Wife' Is a Very Great Trouble
The Overcoming of the 'Rival Wife' Is a Very Great Trouble
Question
Dear Rabbi,
Since lately Israeli and global discourse has been flooded with warnings about the dangers lurking at democracy’s doorstep, I’ve devoted quite a bit of thought to the matter, and the following insights have occurred to me:
In the United States, which claims to represent democratic values and has even tried to impose them, Black people were discriminated against under the protection of democracy, and even today they are disadvantaged under the protection of democracy. Under the protection of democracy one can buy weapons, because lobbying is a legal part of the democratic system in the U.S.
The democratic countries of Europe and Britain ruled over other peoples in Africa and Asia while preserving democracy internally, and those peoples needed bloody wars in order to free themselves.
So perhaps the time has come to wake up, and instead of swearing allegiance to democracy, to find a substitute value—perhaps the equal worth of every human being?!
Best regards
Answer
A., the question is not to which value we swear allegiance, but whether we are good people or not. Democracy is a good mechanism (or the lesser evil), but when people are bad they make bad use of a good system. That will happen even if you find an alternative value to which everyone swears allegiance. They will simply do everything you described under its banner as well.
One of the grave maladies of our (democratic?) way of thinking is the notion that problems of substance can be solved through legislation or the adoption of some formal system. A quick top-down fix and that’s that. Usually that doesn’t solve the problem, and sometimes it even intensifies it.
See on this matter on my site, columns 48–49:
https://mikyab.net/%D7%9C%D7%95%D7%92%D7%99%D7%A7%D7%94-%D7%94%D7%A4%D7%95%D7%9B%D7%94-%D7%91%D7%A9%D7%99%D7%A8%D7%95%D7%AA-%D7%94%D7%90%D7%A0%D7%98%D7%99-%D7%9E%D7%9E%D7%A1%D7%93%D7%99%D7%95%D7%AA-%D7%98%D7%95%D7%A8-4/
https://mikyab.net/bottom-%D7%90%D7%95-top-%D7%98%D7%95%D7%A8-49/