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Q&A: A Little Heart in Guiding the Mind

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A Little Heart in Guiding the Mind.

Question

Hello Rabbi,
a0These are extremely hard days for all of us. Speaking for myself, I am truly depressed and broken. I’m really not functioning—mainly because of the massacre, and also because of fear of the future.
 
I wanted to ask for a column of comfort and encouragement. I know you usually don’t write things like that, but we are in an unusual time, and it is very hard for all of us.
 
I think that the Rabbi’s students are having a much harder time than the rest of the public.
 
All day people tell me that God is watching over us, and they send me rabbis who talk nonsense and explain why the disaster happened.
 
And honestly, I think people like us, who operate according to reason and logic, are missing some kind of column that tries to reflect on the matter of hope, and to encourage the spirit of the thinking public and those who seek truth.
 
I will add that there are several places in the Hebrew Bible (Tanakh) where the Jewish people cried out to God in sorrow and pain, and God accepted the pain.
Gideon. Daniel. (Hanan Ben Ari in the song “What Do You Want,” etc.)
We would also be glad for a few lines expressing pain toward God.
 
 
Thank you very much.

Answer

First of all, we shouldn’t be spoiled. I do not see the fear of the future. There is no real existential threat hanging over us, and our situation is far better than in previous situations. So one has to be rational and not let emotions carry us off to other places. What can be depressing is that the way of the wicked succeeds and we fail. Not the outcome and not the threats. The desecration of God’s name, and what that says about the world—that is what is depressing. And what is also depressing is the emotional way people from all segments of the public are reacting. But that phenomenon was not born today. In my eyes, it is no less depressing than the murder. But about that I have nothing encouraging to say, aside from trying to bring people to rational thinking and neutralize the emotions.
I am debating whether to write a column about the situation from the religious perspective (I have a lot bottled up about that), but it seems to me that what I have to say will achieve the opposite result. It will depress and frighten people (who are living in a fantasy that the Holy One, blessed be He, is protecting us, etc.) and will not encourage them, and therefore for now I have not written it. But I am still undecided.
One has to understand that encouragement and giving hope always contain an element of falsehood. You tell people a story that is incorrect or partial in order to encourage them. If reality itself is encouraging, they usually understand that on their own and do not sink into depression. Only in a situation where they are living with a mistaken perception of reality and an incorrect black outlook is there room for rational encouragement.
I did not understand what is meant by saying that God accepted the pain. What is there to “accept” about pain?

Discussion on Answer

Rabbi Akiva (2023-10-19)

I assume there are others like me who would be glad to know the Rabbi’s view from the religious perspective. I hope he posts a column on the subject.

Elhanan (2023-10-19)

Thank you. I meant that they made claims upward, toward Heaven.
And God loved that.

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