Question

Hello Rabbi,
Following this video:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://www.youtube.com/watch%3Fv%3DSO6hKpgSycQ&ved=2ahUKEwje9dLfwuCPAxVpVfEDHegkM20Qo7QBegQIDRAE&usg=AOvVaw0jvMk8CcpnaYdpLvgqvKSl
which became fairly well known after the attack at the Ramot Junction, for some reason the public perception was that this is the driver’s role in such a situation, just as it is accepted worldwide that the captain leaves last. The question is whether this approach is correct, and if so, whether it applies in every situation.