Q&A: Honoring Parents
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Honoring Parents
Question
Rabbi,
I know that there is an obligation to honor one’s parents, but what happens when it feels like every connection and communication with them is toxic and brings out the ugliest side of me—a side that doesn’t come out with anyone else?
How can I fulfill this obligation when it genuinely does me harm?
Answer
In such a situation, it is better to disconnect. Maintain only minimal contact that allows you to avoid harm.